will u ask ur parents if someone will propose u?

India
March 15, 2007 12:49pm CST
what will you do?if someone will propose u and u also like that person. so in such situation will u also take permission from ur parents before saying "yes" to that person.
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5 responses
@Rexy_leigh (1189)
• Philippines
15 Mar 07
Well, I don't think "like" is already a reason enough for you to give your "yes" to your partner. I believe it has to be "love" for we aren't on for just a childish things when we talk about proposal but the big things that would possibly change your life. And for your question, well, yeah... I would surely tell or inform my parents about my plan of taking our relationship a level up by giving my boyfriend my "yes" by the moment he'll propose... but you have to take note though that I used the term "tell or inform"...not necessarily ask permission coz I know am already at the right age to decide for myself I know my partner better than my parents do...and besides they are no against my relationship with my boyfriend in any way, and they know almost everything in our relationship..so I guess there'd be no problem when that time comes to me personally.
• India
15 Mar 07
ok mam so u finally got my mistake,actually it was my mistake obviously it should be "love" and not "like". and u r very straight forward i like ur attitude, but for me my family means a lot to me, and i just cant go against them. thankyou!!
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
15 Mar 07
Well I wouldn't rush into marriage with someone who I didn't know for very long and with someone that my parents had doubts about. My parents are very open-minded people and for them to not approve of someone, they would've had to have done something unforgiveable. To answer your question, I wouldn't have to ask my parents for permission because I would already know how they feel about my potential husband before I said "yes" to him.
• India
15 Mar 07
it is really good that u didnt face all this. i think that u r lucky. thankyou!!
@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
15 Mar 07
Well you need to feel more than just "like" the person, you need to "love" this person and it would be nice to get your parents opinion but not their permission. If this is the person you choose to be with and get married to, then you have to be the one to make the final decision, not your parents.
• India
15 Mar 07
according to me family matters for me, and they are not happy then i dont think that i can go against him, at the most i can try to convince them.
• India
15 Mar 07
as per the situation,if its possible to get permission from parents then only i will ask otherwise i would not like to ask.
• India
15 Mar 07
thankyou!!
• India
15 Mar 07
i wont ask my parents coz even if i like that person that doesnt mean i will marry her. so i do have affiars and after that if i feel that i can marry that person then i may talk to my parents about it.