why SOME people,,are in a bad mood like 90% of the time????

United States
March 15, 2007 7:40pm CST
I dont know why is this mental stage,,,or how can they be happy with this,,, a lot of times when you are looking to feel relaxed theres somebody that way and mess your mood too!!,,,how can those persons get tru day by day living like "gasoline" anything will blow them up!!!!!
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@howard96h (11665)
• New York, New York
16 Mar 07
We don't know why people are like this. They might having bad problems, suffering through something that is very hard for them to handle and being under so much stress they are in a bad mood. I think we all have our days like that. I know what you mean, there are people like this all the time but we don't know what their lives are like or what burdens they are carrying on their shoulders. I wish those people well.
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• Philippines
16 Mar 07
thank you so much you have validated my answer, you are indeed correct and a person is a human being who sometimes get overwhelmed with life and still dont know what to do and end up messing with other people's lives. I'm so glad that you see my point....
@howard96h (11665)
• New York, New York
16 Mar 07
Your so right.
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@howard96h (11665)
• New York, New York
16 Mar 07
Thank you habichuelo for BR. What I usually try to do with people who are always in a bad mood like you say, is to try and find out if there is a way to help them. When people are angry, I don't think they are angry at you, they are just reacting to their own pain. Those are the people who really need the most help and support. It is hard but if you can get through to that person, then you will be helping them alot. Good luck.
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@tictac714 (976)
• United States
16 Mar 07
Yeah I know a couple people like that. They go around with nasty looks on their faces and are just...well, nasty people. I try to avoid them, if I can, and not let it bother me. THey're miserable but I'm sure not gonna join them.
• United States
16 Mar 07
,,yeah dont let them mess your mood!,,,but had you wonder why they are that way?, and how could yo help?
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• United States
17 Mar 07
Well you're reminding me of a woman who lives a couple doors down from me. She has lived here 2 years, and has been bitter and nasty and unfriendly the entire 2 years. At first when she moved in I tried to be friendly and say hello, but she basically would just ignore me. So now I ignore her too. I know some people who are miserable have reasons for it, but I think that some of them, like my neighbor, are just mean people and I really do not know why and in her case I don't think there is anything to do about it.
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
it doesnt go that when you are in the mood the person is in the mood also. you have no idea whats going on inside that person's heart mind body and soul. if you think that person is messing up with your life why wont you stop gettin in touch with that person and find someone who would soothe your needs and will never be in a bad mood everyday. Why stuck with a person whom you think will be incapable of providing you with your needs and make you happy. that person is for sure unhappy and not ok with her life there are a lot of things that happend that beyond your imagination. its really painful to go through life and i know you know that. Its just shows that you dont know that person VERY WELL. what makes her smile what makes her laugh and the thing that she wanted in life. every person want something and if that person struggles all her life to get that and still she havent achieve that what you think that person feel? fulfilled and happy? i dont think so... I hope you will be happy and find that person that aint gonna mess up your mood and always on the go when yo want it...
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• United States
16 Mar 07
theres some things that ALL people go tru in their lifes and they are not good,,,,, leaving those stuff aside they dont hevr the right to treat others like dust or crap or sh**t,,,Some people are more mature and capable of talking to others no matter how bad theirs life are going,,,those people you owe them a kind of respect because of their humble way to be and their capacity of keeping their peace and patient!!!!!!!!!!!.,,,,,,,,,,,sorry dont agree there on SOME of your points.... in resume of all this no matter how bad you are doing,,respect others patience and good moods!....do not destroy that!
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• Philippines
16 Mar 07
i posted a new discussion jut check it out and there is my answer.
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@cher913 (25895)
• Canada
16 Mar 07
Some women can blame PMS, but men?
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• United States
16 Mar 07
i meant every human men OR woman!!!,,,its more than PMS im talikng about a kind of normal bad mood everyfreaking day on them