When love has gone!
By joodzki6
@joodzki6 (596)
Philippines
March 15, 2007 10:09pm CST
I have been trying to mend all the pain caused by one man...for so many years of being together, we have founded a relationship that i thought would last a lifetime. I have no other dream then, but to be with him all the time until forever. But, suddenly, everything's changed. The man i'm with now is no longer the man i've known and loved before. He really changed a lot...seems like i don't know him anymore. I was trying to put back the pieces hoping that everything will be okay again...but i'm losing hope now...and i gave up!
For all the things i've done, the sacrifices and the love...all was wasted. And i felt so stupid for everything.
Now, i think the love was really gone...no hope for the both of us.
Do you think it is really gone?
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5 responses
@carlysle (271)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
thats always the reaction when you have just broken up with a boyfriend esp a long time bf.. you feel that you have wasted years on him.. but realize that its not only him that has changed... you changed too.. but it just so happen that as of now you are traveling in different paths.. maybe along the way you grew apart.. have different dreams.. have different plans.. but you'll never know your roads will cross again.. or someone elses road would cross yours then you'll meet someone new... that is life.. that is love.. :)
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
16 Mar 07
Men can be very fickle. They will say the words we want to hear as a means to an end. Once they have achieved what they set out to achieve they lose interest and start looking elsewhere. Some women do this too. Without true love and committment your relationship goes nowhere. Finding love with thee right person can be painful and difficult. Instead of giving your heart full rein and then the disaster of an ending occuring, think instead with your head. Your heart will sing and everything will be wonderful...or it will be soon. Your head will show you the true picture and tell you what is wrong. If you don't have honest, loving, communication with your partner you don't have anything.
@majirel08 (64)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
actually, i think the love is still there but the passion has fade away. maybe he needs time to think things over about the things going on between the two of u. u can work things out by simply talking to each other and find out the root cause of the problem. maybe there are just things left unsettled. whatcha think?
@joodzki6 (596)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
actually, we've talked about it several times. i even asked him about what is going on with us...but for some reasons, we end up arguing and fighting..i really don't know. since then, i kept silent...and never attempted to talk to him again. Because i don't want to argue with him anymore.
also, i made myself ready for anything possible to happen. If he really wanted to quit on the relationship..then, i will understand..though, i know it will still hurt me..i have nothing to do if he really want it. i won't push myself to him if he really doesn't love anymore.
