Would you rather be with the person YOU love; or wth a person who loves you?

@d00d00 (826)
Hong Kong
March 16, 2007 8:03am CST
In which ralationship would you want to be: A. You love the person very much, but the person doesn't love you back. B. You don't love the person, but the person truly loves you. I'd go for option A. I guess I can learn to love the person who loves me. What would you choose?
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@lbbaby (489)
• China
17 Mar 07
I think I would choose the one who loves me , but I don't love him. Because firstly, I don't want to get hurt, and I want to live easier. If I choose A, I think I would live harder, and I hate that .Secondly, after you are with a person for a long time ,there's some feeling between you two.
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@dhel74 (25)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
I go for the person who truly loves me but i don't love him... In time i can teach myself to love this person. Coz this guy will do everything for my happiness and he will not make me cry..... The person who truely loves us deserved to be loved.
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@decimus785 (1419)
• Aruba
16 Mar 07
I choose option "B".I dont love the person ,but she truly loves me. I know that one day i will love her back. if a person doesnt love me i wont be able to love her back. The more i see that the person loves the more chance there is that i can love her back.i love the persons who loves me.
@creematee (2810)
• United States
16 Mar 07
Interesting question. I guess I've been in both situations, and preferred option A. It's easier to chase than to be chased. At least then, you can quit when you want to--or at least when you realize that the other person just isn't going to love you back. Sure your heart is broke, but my guilty consious would feel horrible if I was responsible for breaking someone else's heart.
@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
16 Mar 07
That's a very hard question. I think that i would go for the person who loves me. I think that the love for that person would grow. If I chose the person who doesn't love me, then there would be no hope of fulfillment.
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@jay_em93 (99)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
I'd go for B, when you're with someone who loves you he or she would do anything to make you feel happy, comfortable even if he gets hurt, it is sad to be with someone whom you don't love but its pure hell when you love someone but he can't love you back, sometimes you end up being abused both physically and mentally.
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