Do you think Realtionship break up helps person to learn life better

United States
March 16, 2007 10:39am CST
Hey Folks What do you think does realtionship break ups are just a bad chapter or it teaches you something
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@babyhar (1335)
• Canada
17 Mar 07
I know that each time I had broken up with someone in the past.. I had felt like each time I had decided to go my separate way.. That I had learned something new each time.. I had taken something from each relationship & had applied it to the next relationship I had decided to be in.. I feel when you break up with someone there is always a reason behind deciding why the two of you should go your separate ways.. I believe these reasons help to teach you something about yourself each time.. I think also relationships teach you things about yourself that you may have never known before hand.. I know each thing I had learned from the relationships that I have had in the past that had gone sour.. That I had taken what I had learned & applied it to the relationship I had decided to be in afterwards.. I feel it has made me be a much better partner to the person whom I had decided to commit myself to.. I feel because of what I had gone through it has made me want to improve this thing about myself for the next relationship I had decided to commit myself to. I do honestly believe that each & everyone of us are taught something each time we have decided to break up with someone. And be on our own. I think it makes us better people by taking these experiences & learning from them.. And bettering ourselves so we can be a much better partner for the next person whom we decide to be in a committed relationship with.. I truly do believe it is beautiful that we all are taught something each step of the way when it comes to the relationships we involve ourselves in.. I love how I've grown so much from my past relationships.. How I've always believed each thing I was taught from my previous relationship has.. Made me want to improve myself, how it has made me want to better myself.. Not only for the next partner I decide to be with, but most of all for.. Myself.. As I believe when you learn something new about yourself.. You grow as a person.. And I have always believed that growth is such a beautiful thing.. It's nice to look back years from now & see how much you have grown along the way.. In conclusion.. I do honestly believe that each relationship that goes sour & results in a break up.. Helps to teach us all how to not only handle situations better, but also life better.. But it also teaches us things we may have never known about ourselves before hand.. I think growth is a beautiful thing one can go through in life.. And I believe when a person grows along the way it truly makes them in to a better person more than they we're before! I believe self improvement in the long run is a rather rewarding feeling one could ever experience! . . Thanks for allowing me to share! xx
@naty1941 (2336)
• United States
17 Mar 07
You have said it all. I agree with you that we have to learn from all our mistakes in life to become a better person.
@weemam (13372)
16 Mar 07
I have never had a relationship break up as I married my child hood sweetheart 45 years ago , but I think we all learn through our mistakes , is life not just a long learning experience. I just hope we remember what we learn xx
@teison2 (5921)
• Norway
16 Mar 07
I am sure there is something to be learned from everything that happens in life. Some things i could do without learning though.
@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
16 Mar 07
ofcourse it does. first of all it lets a person learn about himself:) and after that about relationships between people. and after that realizing that there are many kinds of human being. yep it does let the person learn alote about life
@kylanie (1205)
• United States
16 Mar 07
I think it could be a little bit of both you learn from youre mistakes and it could make you a better person because you learn to change things then I also think if it was meant to be you would still be together.
@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
16 Mar 07
Well, I think there are things to be learned from ANY experience However, I also think that its best if and when you find somebody you like and GROW a relationship. To learn and care and nurture each other for a long long time. When somebody has many partners and can't make it last its always worth figuring out why. Does he or she have unreasonable expectations? Choose the wrong type of person? Have deep emotional problems that are unresolved? If you are number 50, don't expect it to last I think.
16 Mar 07
I learn more from bad things that happen to be than good I think. I think the more you learn from something the better an experience it is, even if it wasn't a good experience.