Missing An e-Fren

Malaysia
March 16, 2007 11:02am CST
I'm new here. I just want to share my feelings & may be get some advice on this. For the past three years, I had been in contact with a fren through emails, sharing my problems & stuffs with him. We wrote about our children & our aspirations for their future. I've never met him in person though we did plan to meet, once. But we had to cancel that plan due to some other obligations. Since early this year, he had been extremely busy that he seldom reply to my mails. He said his silence is due to his workload. Its just that sometimes I feel like he does not want to be frens with me anymore. I missed him. I missed receiving & reading his mails. Should I continue to say Hi to him or should I just stop it??
2 responses
• Singapore
16 Mar 07
hi, I think you should still keep in touch with him and at the same time try to make more friends. good luck to you
• Malaysia
17 Mar 07
Thanks for the encouragement. I do treasure his frenship. Its not that easy to give up on him
@balaa_in (170)
• India
16 Mar 07
In case if his silence is purely on his work load or he may got the other friend like you to share the feeling and other personnal thinks to him, just check. According to me, you can stop saying "hello" and "hi" to him, once you get the "hi" from him because he should not feel that you cannot push of the day with out his "hi" and his discussions. First you too have to prove that you can also can able to live with out talking to him, even though if you miss him. Hope you understand what i am try to tell you, i am not saying that i just stop talking to him, wait and see how he react his his expressions.. for some times all the best.
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• Malaysia
17 Mar 07
Ya I think I understand what you're trying to say. I feel sad because he no longer bothers, not like he used to be. :-(