what will happen when you did'nt received any phone call or sms from your love

Malaysia
March 16, 2007 12:37pm CST
the subject i'd brought up here is to share your experience when your love did'nt respond to your phone call or any message that you send will not be replied at all.. this happen to me often.. and the word that he said is.. it does'nt mean that he never respond to the sms or phone call he never love me.. but did he really know i'm suffering coz of that?? .. arghhh!!.. what bout ya all..?? do u suffered enough coz of this ?????
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4 responses
@aleez_29 (51)
• Malaysia
18 Mar 07
dear kazen, lemme tell u sumthin. When he didnt call nor smsing u.. dont be to quick to jump and rustle. Calm down. U have to trust him. U cannot expect him to call every second that passed by, neither do every hour. Give him a bit of the time for himself too. Dont be a nerve-wrecking gal just bekoz of this. Calm down. Give him time to explain. May be he is busy... really have important things to do.. or may be he is having tea with his friends.. let him do that... His life is not just about u and him... he is own by others too.. alright kazzy? Calm down and be patience. Be firm and confident that u r always in his heart.
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• Malaysia
18 Mar 07
yupp... it will be ok if he did it sometime... and i understand his situation when theres nothing from him but.. when there is a little argument.. he always be like that..keep silent..
• Malaysia
18 Mar 07
yurpp.. hes the one and the only one now.. and hope to understand him .. and thanks for ur advice kazen..
• Malaysia
18 Mar 07
hmmm.. this is the man u wanted to spend your life with right? try and understand him well before commiting yourself to any man ok. Dont rush into anything to fast
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@angeljc (20)
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
I feels quite depressing if someone you love doesn't response to your sms or phonecalls, I've been to that not too long time ago with my X. Sometime i came to the point that I was crying during the night coz he doesn't keep in touch with me, I used to be very childish..But now with my current bf, now I understand if sometimes he doesn't txt or call me..Coz I really knew him.. But in your case, I know I am different from you.hehehe... I certainly understand why you feel that way..Just to give a friendly advice...You can actually open this to him in a nice way..Maybe he has a valid reason..And in a relationship you must have trust and understanding to each other. You could actually asked him if he could give some time to contact you but ofcourse dont be overdemanding.
• Malaysia
17 Mar 07
thanks for ur advice angeljc .. :) there is a time that i do not have enough strength to ask him what is goin on.. i believe i should be more understand him ..
@grudge (299)
• India
17 Mar 07
i really get tensed when i dont recieve any call or SMS ...
• Malaysia
17 Mar 07
me too.. hehhee..
• India
16 Mar 07
Yes!! its quite depressing when u dont get a phone call or reply to ur messages..and its more critical when u find ur spouse replying to others' mssgs or making calls to others... But i would suggest you not to sit silent and make urself sad but go straight to one u love and ask him everything frankly and ask him what he wants..Then only u can land up on a decision
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• Malaysia
17 Mar 07
that would be a nice idea.. i confront my love and he feel sorry bout that..