Should I pay more attention to my stature?

China
March 18, 2007 2:49am CST
Like most girls, I was very care of my stature last several years. But my boyfriend told me that he didnot care about it and he aslo ask me to have more food. So I trusted him and did it. Now, he sometimes says that I am fatter than before. Of course, I don't like he says it like this. Therefore, should I pay more attention to my stature and continute keeping fit?
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9 responses
• China
18 Mar 07
warmly welcome to mylot.i am a boy,and i will tell you the reason why your boyfriend change his mind.when you have good stature,your boyfriend will love you very much and will say something to make you happy.he might say he don't care about your stature.but when you lose your beauty,his love will decrease at the same time.so keeping being beautiful is very important for the girls.
@AmbiePam (48647)
• United States
1 Apr 07
If someone gains a little weight, that does NOT mean they lose their beauty? Where are these guys from that leave silly responses like this? Maybe her boyfriend should get taller, or lose weight himself!
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• China
1 Apr 07
Sorry,my boyfriend is very thin,and he is not easy to get some weight.Comparing with him,I am too easy to be fatter.But I have to work for five days in a week.I am lucky that I can keep fit for the reason.
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@Gemmygirl1 (2870)
• Australia
1 Apr 07
Well of course you're fatter than before, he told you to eat more - i don't know if he realises this but you wont lose weight by eating more!!! I figure if your boyfriend loves you, then he shouldn't care :) Trust me, if you guys are together & say, have a baby, you WILL put on weight & it WILL take you a while to get rid of it - he wont love you any less & wont think you're any less beautiful! If you want to keep fit then that's great but do it for yourself, NOT for anyone else!
• China
3 Apr 07
To me,I will be more beautiful when I cut my weight.Maybe I had better have a talk with my boyfriend.Thank you very much!
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@Bell88 (370)
• Malaysia
1 Apr 07
You should just keep fit to feel good and look good.
• China
3 Apr 07
Thank you for your advice!But I think the health is the most important to me in this period.
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@AmbiePam (48647)
• United States
1 Apr 07
You threw me off for a minute when you said 'stature', but now that I understand I say shame on your boyfriend! As long as you are eating healthy, getting exercise, a few extra pounds will not hurt you. You don't have to be really thin to be healthy. So enjoy life and all that goes with it. And send you boyfriend to me so I can tell me to cut out his mean remarks. : )
• China
1 Apr 07
My boyfriend is not so bad indeed.Because he treats me very well.But to think it further,it seems that I have known him very much though we have been together for more than two years.
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@AmbiePam (48647)
• United States
3 Apr 07
I just can't fathom why if he has been with you so long, he starts getting on your case for your appearance. He loves YOU, not the amount of you there is.
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• China
3 Apr 07
So if you are a boy,will you choose a more beautiful girl as your lover?Tell me the turth,please.
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@youdontsay (3503)
• United States
6 Apr 07
While it is good to keep fit, I don't recommend you do it to please someone else. You want to be fit so you will be healthy. Hopefully he isn't overly concerned about your appearance and is concerned with your health. Otherwise, he's not being a good friend. Be happy with the way your are and stay fit!
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• China
7 Apr 07
Yes,he is not a good friend.Today I have found it.
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• Australia
7 Jun 07
Sweetie do not keep your stature for your boyfirend do it for yourself! if he loves you he wont care my boyfriend doesnt!
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• China
8 Jun 07
Really?But I think different country has different culture.
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• India
6 Jun 07
yes u hould definetly take care of u r structure,thats very importent for girls
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• China
7 Jun 07
Would you please tell me some reasons about this?
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• China
6 May 07
Do not be care about it.Just be yourself.
• China
7 May 07
I can understand.But it is hard to do what you have said.
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• United States
8 Apr 07
Honestly, if you want to have a good body and health. Do it for YOU not someone else. If you do it for someone else you will always be let down. I, personally, prefer to have my woman with a little meat on their bones. Not chubby, just healthy. It is a proven fact that "heavier" people are healthier than skinny people. They get the vitamins they need. But, seriously, if you want to look good, don't do it for some guy who just wants you to look like that for his own "eye candy" purposes. Do it because you want to look good and live longer.
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• China
9 Apr 07
Maybe I am not the same as others.I always did anything for others not myself.If the matter is for myself,I will not take it into serious.
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