Women don't like me

United States
March 18, 2007 4:10pm CST
Why does it seem that people, especially women, only want to be friends with people who are shady or have done them wrong? But they shun the friends who have been there for them through thick and thin?I am a genuine friend - I care about people from the bottom of my heart, and usually put others before me. Yet my so called friends leave me out of activities or don't call me when something is going on, and I'm really starting to be offended by it. Yet they are quick to call the messed up so called friends in our group that talk about everybody behind their backs, steal boyfriends, and are only around when they need something. If I say something about it I'll be the b*tch. I know what you're going to say, they aren't real friends, but this is true of just about every female friend relationship I've been in. So maybe it's me. What about me makes females not want to be around me? Should I start acting like a b*tch too, steal a few boyfriends and talk behind backs to "fit in?" I'm being sarcastic, because I could never do anything like that, but really, give me your honest opinion. I can take it.
1 response
@ironstruck (2299)
• Canada
18 Mar 07
You know, that is so true.. But really women are not that interested in men who are falling all over them. There is no excitement or challenge in that. Women like men who sort of push them away, because it makes women feel like there is something wrong with them.
• United States
18 Mar 07
in case its not clear from my post, i am a woman.