Finding the right person?
March 19, 2007 11:23pm CST
So how hard is it to find that right person for you? Why does it seem that everyone I meet is just not right for me? I mean there perfect at first and than they all of a sudden become someone there not? Is there anyone really out there for me? If so what do I have to do to find them? LOL! any advice?
20 Mar 07
For me, there is really no perfect person if you will live up to your expectations. It can never be perfect coz no one can live to the expectations of the other person. The only way to make it a perfect person is trying to be theirselves and accepting that person for who he/she is. Yes, there is really someone for you and it will come in a surprise. For me, a perfect person is living with imperfections and yet still strive to be a good person. Just be yourself and never have expectations. Just try to accept both the good and the bad traits that your partner has. :) Good luck!
• United States
20 Mar 07
He was staring me in the face the entire time. I was just to young and stupid to see it. I went through my share of men before I finally realized that what I had been looking for was there all along. We have been married for 9 years and still going strong. Most people when they are first introduced are on their best behavior. It's later when their true colors come out. Usually after you are already attached. I believe that everyone has a mate out there somewhere. You just have to be patient till they come along. Until then have fun and get out there. Maybe all you need to do is look around you she might already be there.