why did you end your last relationship

same here..my ex cheated on me...

i ended my last relationship due to two reasons: dissatisfaction and transfer of affection. first, i had expectations and needs that my past boyfriend couldn't provide. i tried to lessen emotional desires, yet even doing so, didn't motivate him to do well for me. second and biggest reason, i fell inlove with another man. i denied this feeling (even from myself), but the heart is just too powerful to ignore! as the saying goes,"love conquers all". now, i am truly happy with my present relationship. we didn't start perfectly, but we are trying to make our love close to perfection.

with me it was a long time ago, about 20 years, but as with you (and i suspect most people) it was because of cheating. I consider it a lucky escape blessed be

After my divorce I felt very vulnerable and it was ages before I felt able to contemplate another relationship. I met a guy I liked, and we got together, and for a while it was good. I didn't realise that he was only with me for what he could get. I realised after a year or so that he was never paying for anything, it was always down to me. He was a taker, not a giver, so he had to go