online love

India
March 21, 2007 2:20pm CST
Can u fall in love with a person over the net? or the telephone?...how long do u think it will last?...wen i answered a call n the person said he wants to keep in touch i never took him seriously but we are in touch now for the past 3 years!!..we have not met b'cos we live in different countries but he calls often and we chat on the IM
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@asish1672 (339)
• United Arab Emirates
26 Mar 07
I have heard a lot about online love before. I have not been through this, but logically and practically thinking, I can say that, what you are doing is purely 'timepass'. It is very much possible to fall in love with a person over phone, because there are lot of gifted people who have such a voice, that, girls/boys get attracted to that person very easily. I dont think one can judge a person completely without meeting him/her in person. So this is a prime necessity.....otherwise what is the use of this relationship? Also both of you have to master the courage and ability to meet up somewhere to know each other and give a result to these interaction, or else you are simply wasting your time. This was my view and I hope you dont mind.
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@Melody1 (968)
• India
26 Mar 07
Its very natural to feel that you have fallen in love on the net or phone because almost everyone chatting here says good things and you too might feel affectionate to that person because of the nice things that constitute most part of the interaction. One tends to think that these things are meant for you.What we fail to understand that the same things are being said to every other person.You don't know how many other girls that person on the phone talks to and says the same thing. I don't want to discourage you but just want you to be careful.Even the chat messenger asks you not to reveal your personal details. This doesn't mean that no genuine interaction takes place.But the possibility is very rare and in such case you should take your parents in confidence first. Good luck Ano.All the best.:-)
@Melody1 (968)
• India
27 Mar 07
Thanks Ano for marking my response as the best.:-)
• India
29 Mar 07
You are welcome Melody:)
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@cherriemae (3375)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
Yes, i'm inlove with the man who is far from me. He's from Canada, and i got he's name in one of the lover's searching website here at internet. We become boyfriend girlfriend for 5mos. now and it's still getting stronger everyday. We communicate through email and sometimes we do chat on the IM. I think it doesnt matter to have online love because it's really matter is the love that binds between us..