Boyfriend impregnating someone

pregnant - pregnant woman
Philippines
March 22, 2007 12:09pm CST
If your boyfriend let you decide, will you let him marry the girl he impregnated and end your relationship? What's your stand on this?
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8 responses
• United States
23 Mar 07
Well, what if you had a child(ren) together, then how would the decision be made then? But in my case, no I would not. You would agree to help him. Only because no one is perfect, even women and we all need a chance at one point or another, and for it not to happen again.
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@foxyfire33 (10017)
• United States
22 Mar 07
If I had a b/f that cheated on me and impregnated another woman, I wouldn't care what he did with her but our relationship would definitely be over. I'd much rather be free to find someone else that would show me more respect. As for those two, they can get married, live together, break up, whatever they want. It takes two people to get pregnant so they're both to blame. It's up to them to figure out what to do. I would want nothing to do with either one of them.
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@12051976 (231)
• Ghana
22 Mar 07
well am a man but i think i can contribute to this issue.the answer is, i will not allow him to marry that girl especially if am the first girlfriend. i will just take the baby and care for it.
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@nic24uk (571)
22 Mar 07
id show him the door!!
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@magikrose (5425)
• United States
22 Mar 07
The thing is he dosnt have to marry her to be a good father to the baby. Theonly way I would let him go is if he told me he truly loved her and really wanted to have a family with her. As long as he was honest with me yes I would let him go.
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@CyTop86 (71)
• Malaysia
22 Mar 07
Well, if i'm really love my gf, i wont touch any of the other girls outside... But if i'm not going to love my gf, of coz, boys... will trying to get another girl outside At least, me..., wont doing this because i still single and i dont wish/hope i'll doing this to my love 1 day.
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@maximax8 (27048)
22 Mar 07
If he wants to marry the girl he got pregnant is he saying this because he loves her or feels he is trying to be a dad? Maybe he loves you but feels some kind of responsiblity towrds the girl. If he stays with you he could still be a part time dad.
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@anonymili (3140)
22 Mar 07
If my boyfriend/husband impregnated some other girl he would first have to see if I let him get away with all his important bits intact for cheating on me. All jokes aside (I'm not really the violent type)... if there was any decision left to make or anything left to say, it would be "Goodbye forever you loser!" No excuses no second chances whatsoever. Then the cheat could decide himself if he wanted to marry her or whatever. :)