When you go out with your partner, is it imp 4 the guy to shell out cash?

@Lovett (465)
March 22, 2007 12:23pm CST
Well, I am confused myself. I guess it should be the guy first n then they should take turns,,,....But, I m still confused!!!How bout some thoughts on it?
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@anonymili (3138)
22 Mar 07
The first date I had with my husband he insisting on paying for everything no matter how much I wanted to contribute, the first few dates after that too he insisted on picking up the bill till I said I felt uncomfortable with that, he started letting me pay some of the time and him the other times (we've never split a bill though LOL). Since we've been married we just go out and one or other of us picks up the bill. I hate it when you go to a restaurant though and you ask for the bill and they assume the man is going to pay and when I take the bill and hand over my credit card they look at my husband like "hey why you letting the lady pay?" LOL Basically it should be down to individuals how they feel about it, in this day and age some women earn more money than men so why shouldn't they pick up the bill more often than the man? :)
@Lovett (465)
• India
22 Mar 07
I agree that even the girl should pay sometimes.But wat bout the people that look. I mean in front of friends??,they might even ask the girl bout it right?. But if the guy doesn't have money and tells the girl to pay , saying that he will pay her, obviosly , the girl does not like to take the money back, but the guy makes it a habit, then wat should the girl do?