which u prefer??

I think at least one parent should be at home with the child! and whoever earnt the most (or enough to pay the bills) should go back to work

I doesnt really matter as long both partnes agree with something. I don't like anybody watching my kids I rather watch them myself, everybody has a diiferent point of view.

I think that children are better off being brought up by their parents. People differ though and although normally it is the women who wants to be at home with the children, sometimes the man will make a better job of it and so in that case he should be the one at home.

yeah her the challenge is to find things that are not too unpleasant that make some money then reduce how much money is needed ideally they both work maybe 20 hours a week or less, unless they enjoy what they do for work or, maybe sometimes, send one or the other out to work while the other takes care of home things ideally neither of them has to even one damn thing that they would prefer not to.