Single parenting

Philippines
March 23, 2007 2:10am CST
i'm a single mom of 2 boys and i can say that i've already been thru a lot for the past 18 yrs of my life. I ronically, im the only one who's raising and supporting my kids and i've been living this life the best way i could just to give my kids a better future even if they don't have a dad. A lot of people have been telling me to try and find someone who i can share my life with, someone who will love me and accept me the way i am right now together with my kids. I know a lot of single parents who's having it their way and yrt still happy living alone. Some say it's good to know you will have someone to care with and grow old with in the future. I'm alright with what i have although sometimes i 'm feeling lonely too. Do u think living ur life alone is better with living with someone no matter what the future hold for you? Honestly... i'm having doubts. What kind of life do u prefer to have five to ten yrs from now?
3 responses
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
single parents - as a single parent
i know a lot of single parenthood. i don't think that is the best solution having someone that could be with and grow old for the rest of our woman lives. as for me i can live alone together my children if i am at your situation, maybe lonely but i will be much happier if i work hard for the kids. just don't find it it will just come along if god's permit to have the one that you love for the rest of your lives. but for now just be concentrate to your kids give them the better lives they have... trust me you'll be much happier if you see you two son's growing up with you..
@airstone (126)
• China
23 Mar 07
i believe it is very toilsome for one person to foster two boys. so i hope that i can live with my lover after i find a job.it is simply and exciting!
@decimus785 (1419)
• Aruba
23 Mar 07
I think you should have someone to keep you company. You feel lonely sometimes,some people think that living alone isbetter,but not for long.You have to remember that your boys will grow up one day and get married and you'll be alone again. I think having a companion is god for every one. loneliness is the worst company to have.