Friends with benefits

@myahw20 (1116)
Canada
March 23, 2007 9:57am CST
Do you have one?haha.. How do you actually define friends-with-benefits.. and do you like that idea?
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3 responses
@nowment (1758)
• United States
23 Mar 07
In some ways friends with benefits is better than with a lover, since you have the comfort zone of the friendship to fall back on. You don't have the insecurities and hang ups that come from wondering, what if etc when you are with someone you are more romantically involved with. I have had friends with benefits and it was great, both of us were with someone we could trust, knew were safe and healthy though naturally precautions were still taken, and could find some enjoyment, which gives the freedom of being pressured into making a good commited relationship, since one night stands was not something I was considering. And there was an understand between us when we were in between relationships, and acceptance of not having the benefits when were in relationships.
@myahw20 (1116)
• Canada
26 Mar 07
I agree that having a fall back on friendship is good. It's just hard when you start to have expectations on each other.
• United States
25 Mar 07
I would never let a guy to use me, unless he is super hot (celebrity looks alike) ha ha ha....I'm the one that get the benefit. Well, I'm now married so, I won't do that anyway.
@ana1361 (98)
• Sweden
23 Mar 07
I hate from being with anyone for my benefit.it s disgusting .