Long Term Engagement...Healthy or Not?

March 23, 2007 2:19pm CST
Whew!! months to go and We are turning 5..Paranoia is starting to pollute my system...Im turning 24 and Marriage is starting to scares me...My boyfriend and I are planning to get married soon..I love him so much but seeing my friends marriage situation...Gives me negative feeling about marriage...What shall I do?? I dont know if Im ready already...Im starting to have dreams about my future wedding and i always woke up crying..Waaahh!!!! I need the best advice so I can move on...
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@netski_15 (423)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
Getting married is a normal call of life. We have our own destinys. Look at the positive side of getting married, you have a companion, you have the guy you love, you're no longer alone. Yes there are negative sides of it. But hey, that's just normal. Do not compare yourself to your married friends. It is you who make your destiny. It depends on your hands on how you want your married life to work. Ask yourself again, is it the guy your going to marry, or is it you? Are you through with your singleness? Did you enjoy it? Do you think you can handle life with someone who will be forever beside you? Make a rain check. Think a million times if getting married with that guy is worth giving up your single life. If the answer is yes, go on go with it. Who knows? You might be missing half of your life.