would you ever take back a cheater?

Philippines
March 23, 2007 10:07pm CST
if your boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on you.. either you actually caught it in the act or someway you found it to be true.. then, he/she would ask for forgiveness and admits the mistake and asks for your affection again.. would you take him/her back?
4 responses
@bunmi2501 (467)
• Nigeria
24 Mar 07
i think it's a dual thing actually. as long as you love him/her and can be sure the person will not do it again, why not? give him/ her a chance to gain your trust again. do also find out why he/she decided to cheat on you; cos it will help you understand the reason and then you might both be able to prevent it from happening again.
• Philippines
24 Mar 07
yeah, what made them cheat? hmm... thanks!
@ayesha25 (91)
• Philippines
24 Mar 07
no.. because ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER!
• Philippines
24 Mar 07
so, cheaters don't change.. thanks for the point of view!
@7nicole1 (1634)
• Canada
24 Mar 07
No matter how much I loved the person or had been with them theres no way I could take them back after cheating on me. One big thing in realtionships for me is trust and without that there's nothing else left. If the person did it once chances are they will do it again and think of this when they say "Please Give Me Another Chance It Wont Happen Again" just think if they loved you so much in the first place then it wouldnt have happened at all right!
• Philippines
24 Mar 07
okay... thanks for "in the first place" point of view!
@amy0214 (1513)
• United States
24 Mar 07
no i wouldnt because i would never be able to trust them again