What does a woman want in a man?

@AdamMax (260)
United States
March 24, 2007 8:29am CST
Are there certain things that all women want in a man or is it different for different women? Women always say looks are'nt the most important thing, but if you aren't attracted by looks initially, how are you supposed to meet?
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• United States
24 Mar 07
No matter how much women want to admit it, I believe that looks are a good factor in making a decision as to what guy they want. Now, don't get me wrong I'm not saying that's all thats involved in the choice, but it does really make a difference. Also of course women want a man that will treat them good and with a lot of respect. A man that will love them and do anything for them. Also a person that is a good communicator helps as well. Most importantly someone that will always keep them happy. I might have left a few things out, but that just about covers it.
@Abbyey (760)
• Philippines
24 Mar 07
I am a woman who looks not in the appearance of guys when speaking of attraction. Though i cant deny that good looking guys do catch my attention but usually i just take a short glimpse on them. I only admire their goodlooks and learn to appreciate it... Its a LOT different from i am attracted to a guy. How? well admiring a guy's appearance is just like looking at a picture perfect photograph while attraction is more link to the feeling of "I might Falling In Love with the guy". This i take more seriously, a guy who has a sense of humor, sincere, with integrity, true to his word, Attitude matters a lot and also a guy whom i can have a quality conversation with him about anything... but more importantly when a woman/I starts missing the guy... that would be... the time i would ask myself... whats going on? why am i missing him? why do i miss his company? there would be a long pause to that... til i would realize i have fallen for him... a woman who feels that she has fallen for the guy will not TELL the guy... she will observe him if he feels the same way... though at times there are woman who are more aggreesive that they would tell the guy... i on the otherhand would just wait til he ask... but of course most of the time... guys can feel if the woman has feelings for them (i think)... then it goes from there... Hmmm... its true... good looks would be 20% of 100 and the 80% is more of the attitude, personality and character of the guy. thanks for asking Adam
• India
24 Mar 07
A woman would look at her man being strong and sensitive to her feelings and the one who understands and shares everything with her. she should be comfortable with my in everything and she would expect him to trust and have faith in each other. this is all a girl looks in a guy
• India
24 Mar 07
When woman says that looks doen't matter it means that she knew the guy b4 just as a friend and finally fell in love.But where love at 1st sight is considered looks do matter.
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@akinad (446)
• Philippines
24 Mar 07
yeah basically we are attracted to good physical looks but then again we try to find what is more important and that is ur man's personality..how will u get along if ur personality doesnt match with ur partner..you will need a lot of compromising for that i think..i guess what woman wants or looks for a guy is SECURITY,DEVOTION,HONESTY,LOYALTY,DEPENDENCY and of course the main ingredient in a relationship..LOVE
@hazbung (17)
• United States
25 Mar 07
there are just a lot of things i would want my man to have. he should be sensitive, able to voice out his emotions, SMaRT, funny and many more...but most especially he has got to be extremely in love with me because a person in love will do almost everything for his loved one. i can say that i am so lucky because my boyfriend is all that i ever wanted but i am so unfortunate as well because he is freakin' thousand miles away from me right now. we're actually on the process of working out our long distance relationship. it's tough but i want my man.=]
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@pava1326 (130)
• India
24 Mar 07
Well the only and one most important thing woman look in man is a good charater, love and love only.
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@hazbung (17)
• United States
25 Mar 07
that is one good question right there. my boyfriend actually told me a few days ago that no guy would make a move to a girl which he doesn't think is attractive. and i believe being attracted to anybody could be caused by a lot of things. looks can be one, but there are other things like voice, he could be very impressive when he speaks... skills, everybody notices the MVP in basketball leagues or football.whatever. there are just so many ways to be noticed by other people aside with just looks.you just have to be creative.=]
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