Arrange Marrage or Love Marrage.

India
March 25, 2007 1:20am CST
So...what do u believe in Is it Arrange Marrage or Love Marrage.
2 responses
@mickidmw (992)
• United States
4 Apr 07
Marriage out of love is the only way to go I think! With an arranged marriage you don't know what you are getting, it is stranger, there are no feeling at first other than fear and being stuck with no choice! I know a lot of cultures still do that and they have done it forever and works, but I just prefer marriage for love! Great question though. Thanks
• India
4 Apr 07
I Agree with you one should marrage one whom he/she loves. One think i would like to say is arrange marrage is not the one where you do it with fear or being stuck with no choice, why to think in that way, There are list of boys and gals who would love to go for an arrange marriage not because its don't have a choice but they respect values, there tradition there culture. In the end i would rather say go for any kind of marrage but you should love your spouse as you love yourself.
@kerry1804 (214)
• India
28 Mar 07
i would like to go for love marriage.. but for that i need to fall in love with someone.. and someone also need to fall in love with me.. which is crucial part of it.. bcoz many girls are either giving response to rich people or handsome guy.. So i will manage by arrange marriage.
• India
4 Apr 07
i think you a guy who has done lots of compromies in your life, why always for the negative side, there might be a possibily that even if you do a arrange marriage your wife is one of those who love money but why to think that even If you wanna go for love marriage go for it, start looking for a good gal and tell her what ever you feel for her, there going to be two answer its either Yes or No. both way its good for you if she siad yes its all yours and if she said No then you can start searching for another good cal, but make sure you don't go mad if anyone said No to you, just take it in a simple way as a part of life. God Bless.