Amongst all your EX's, with whom are you willing to give it a second shot???
25 Mar 07
well...i only have i think 2-3 ex's in my life...and i've already reconciled with my ex whose name is Joy...we were in college together and had a relationship for 2 yrs when i left her for another woman...then after spending a 6-yr relationship w/ this woman...we broke up and our lives crossed again and we found ourselves inlove once more...so here we are growing stronger w/ a more matured love and trust. So i guess you really can't say past is past...you never expect what will come to you...
25 Mar 07
First, remember the reasons you guys split up, sit down with him and explain to him those reasons, then tell him your answer and your reasons for that answer. if it's to get back together, then tell him he has to rebuild the trust he destroyed and you're willing to work on that, but you really have to be willing with an open heart. If you decide no, then explain to him why you're turning him down, and be honest, don't give him some junk about it being you and not him, that just pisses guys off and confuses them.