What if ur boyfriend don't have much time for you what u think?

South Korea
March 25, 2007 12:48pm CST
Do u think bad to your boyfriend or husband if he don't pay u a lot of attention? I have a boyfriend but i think he don't pay much attention on me.. i don't want to think negative about him but i saw on his action that he pay a lot of attention to other things than me.. what do u think? and im the only one who finds a way to communicate with him.
3 responses
• India
26 Mar 07
well this is a very crusual stage bcas u have to choose what is good or what is bad so if this thing is happning then u have to observe it very care fully and get the problem solved becas there can be n no. of reasons .
@charms88 (7543)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
You will be the only one to personally judge what your boyfriend's priority right now. You can ask yourself if this is going on for a few months or just recently. Let him sit down and talk things out with him. If he could give you a valid reasons, you can assimilate yourself from there. Can you bear with this kind of distance with him. Or is this just a passing phase where your boyfriend is trying to catch up with his friends. All the best.
• United States
26 Mar 07
If your boyfriend is anywhere near your age, he should be mature enough to have his priorities in better shape. If it's because of school, I say it's okay. If it's because of work and this hasn't been going on for a while, then tell him how you feel. He may be so wrapped in his work he may have forgotten what's truly important. If it's because of friends or some other reasons or excuses he tells you, then you might want to worry. Like I said, if he's around your age he should know who's more important to him, friends or girlfriend. If it's the last thing I mentioned "excuses," then you might consider whether this relationship is in trouble. If he's got all sort of "excuses" why he can't come over or you can't go over there, if he has canceled plans or you can't get in touch with him when you used to, then perhaps there's someone else. I hope not but you have to keep your eyes open. Good luck. ‹(°¿°)›