"Like a virgin...."
25 Mar 07
Before i answer this question, i just wanted to say that i don't have any against were the person is not a virgin or still a virgin. I really serious about the virginity reagardless in particular situation or view point. Let me give you an example, i had a friend, he is a very conservative type, and i don't know why he acted that way. Maybe because on his surroundings or understanding in virginity. He said to me that virginity is kept until the right time comes on your future partner. When i asked him if he's still a virgin and he said: Yes, i'm still a virgin and i'm proud about it and nothing to be ashamed. He had a girlfriend for the past 3 years, and still going on. He said to me, that his girlfriend or his future mate is no longer a virgin, and he said: I'm want her to be part of my life, and when that time come, i gonna asked her to marry me. And he added this words: Whether you're partner still a virgin or not, it doesn't matter as long as you loved somebody, virginity is not anymore an issue.
• United States
26 Mar 07
I used to think that it was really important for the man I was going to marry to be a virgin. It was something that I looked for and wanted. I was a virgin up until I got married, so I thought that my husband had to be, too. Turns out, the man I fell in love with made some mistakes when he was younger, and lost his virginity at a young age. It bothered me after he told me when we first started dating. After awhile, I realized that was part of his past. When I fell in love with him, and I chose to love him, I chose to love all of him, even his past...mistakes and all. You can't always help who you fall in love with...and you definitely cannot change person's past to fit your ideal mold. Congratulations on being a virgin still. Some lucky girl is really going to appreciate that from you.
25 Mar 07
if you truly love the person, you'd accept him/her no matter what. regardless if the person is still a virgin or not. but if you're in a conservative group, specially catholic groups, it is quite important. but would you let it hinder your love for each other?