"Like a virgin...."

Philippines
March 25, 2007 1:40pm CST
Is it really important for you that the man/woman you are going to marry is a certified virgin?
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6 responses
@rjdreyes (157)
• Japan
25 Mar 07
Before i answer this question, i just wanted to say that i don't have any against were the person is not a virgin or still a virgin. I really serious about the virginity reagardless in particular situation or view point. Let me give you an example, i had a friend, he is a very conservative type, and i don't know why he acted that way. Maybe because on his surroundings or understanding in virginity. He said to me that virginity is kept until the right time comes on your future partner. When i asked him if he's still a virgin and he said: Yes, i'm still a virgin and i'm proud about it and nothing to be ashamed. He had a girlfriend for the past 3 years, and still going on. He said to me, that his girlfriend or his future mate is no longer a virgin, and he said: I'm want her to be part of my life, and when that time come, i gonna asked her to marry me. And he added this words: Whether you're partner still a virgin or not, it doesn't matter as long as you loved somebody, virginity is not anymore an issue.
• Philippines
27 Mar 07
yah, virginity is not a real issue anymore... as long as you love the person... go for it and never lose..
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@vebela (310)
• United States
26 Mar 07
I used to think that it was really important for the man I was going to marry to be a virgin. It was something that I looked for and wanted. I was a virgin up until I got married, so I thought that my husband had to be, too. Turns out, the man I fell in love with made some mistakes when he was younger, and lost his virginity at a young age. It bothered me after he told me when we first started dating. After awhile, I realized that was part of his past. When I fell in love with him, and I chose to love him, I chose to love all of him, even his past...mistakes and all. You can't always help who you fall in love with...and you definitely cannot change person's past to fit your ideal mold. Congratulations on being a virgin still. Some lucky girl is really going to appreciate that from you.
• Philippines
27 Mar 07
you are absolutely right about that. i agree. past is past, and you can't change it. you just have to live with it. besides, nothing is perfect. so what? that what makes relationships work.
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• Philippines
27 Mar 07
nice response... hope you to continue that kind of thinking... no one dictates who will you love and you can never ask for a perfect partner, everyone has mistakes in their past... tnx anyway
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@ydnac22 (804)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
Its not a big deal to me.Having a virgin bf?I think they dont exist anymore but if i found one i will be more lucky.For me it doesnt matter for a long as we love each other why not? :)
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• Philippines
27 Mar 07
you're right, having a virgin boyfriend today is one in a million...
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@ehdzzie (331)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
as for me...the guys are okay if they're not a virgin but for the women, it is better if they are virgins....
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@repzkoopz (1895)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
why is that? can you expound a little to enlighten us? c",)
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• Philippines
26 Mar 07
im still a virgin so i have nothin' to explain... peacemen!!!
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@repzkoopz (1895)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
aaaaawww... come on khent!.. haven't you read the article about lies? hahaha..
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@repzkoopz (1895)
• Philippines
25 Mar 07
if you truly love the person, you'd accept him/her no matter what. regardless if the person is still a virgin or not. but if you're in a conservative group, specially catholic groups, it is quite important. but would you let it hinder your love for each other?
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• Philippines
27 Mar 07
off course not... even if im a certified virgin, its not important if my partner is a virgin or not... you know me rePz!
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@repzkoopz (1895)
• Philippines
7 Apr 07
heheeyy.. thanx for the BR ken! i appreciate it! c',)
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@maxxine (612)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
no is not important to me......