Wat wd u do if ur fiance all on a sudden tels u that she has a fellin 4 sm1 else

India
October 18, 2006 5:48am CST
After havig a steady relationship for over three years all on a sudden if your girl friend says you that she has devoloped a felling for somebody else what to do, and how to solve it,I am undergoing such a situation I cant live without her and I wana win her back please suggest me what to do and how to get her back and make her realse the fact..
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@sanju21 (135)
• United States
10 Aug 07
Aditya this is very common problem that people face and in most of the times can be severely painful and shocking.Some people loses mental stability and peace of mind when faced with a situation like yours.I often come across cases like this and do some sort of mentoring for my close friends who face such situations.And it helps, believe me.Here I can guide you with my experience in this matter.Firstly findout why your girlfriend is behaving in such an odd fashion.Try to meet her and have an open talk with her Be calm and composed and emphasize on your love for her through well controlled actions like take her to some place witha cosy ambience and silent surroundings and gently ask for such an unusual behavior after such a long time of affair.See her reactions and find out if there are other factors which newly cropped up like parents pressure for marriage or other factors behind this or is it simply peculiar girlish fancy and she needs some time to come out of it.Give her some space and time and let her be on her own.Always remember if she loves you she will definitely come back to you under ordinary circumstances.So best of luck in your endeavour.