teenage relationship..what good does it bring to them?

@akinad (448)
Philippines
March 25, 2007 9:27pm CST
i have this cousin who's at an early is having a relationship with a very young girl who's only 13.. both young and immature as we all know but are they really ready to have this kind of relationship??just as i observed..they spend most their time arguing..mostly of little things that really bugs me!! they become most possesive of each other..wants to be together 24/7..skipping school just to be with each other.. so what good does it bring to them??they aren't growing as a person with this kind of set-up..but why is teenage relationship cases still growing faster..why are parents allowing this??who's gonna control this situation?
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@elisa812 (3033)
• United States
4 Apr 07
Well, I agree that this particular situation doesn't really sound good or healthy for them. I think that if they were in a positive relationship with each other as teens, it would be a good thing because they could learn what dating is like and start to learn how to get along with each other and how to be in a relationship, and get to know what they would like in a relationship. The one you're describing though doesn't sound healthy for either of them, and it sounds like maybe their parents need to step in and have a talk with them about it or something.
• Philippines
3 Apr 07
that's why i hate teenage relationships especially the people involve because they are so immature to handle such relationship...parents or older people should do some teaching and guidance...teenages are prone to PMS
• United States
30 Mar 07
It sounds like a normal teenage relationship to me.Is your cousin the same age as his girlfriend? If so, it will be okay.Who is contol? The couple is in control.The parents could try to break them up but it may backfire, they could run off together.All the parents can do is get to know their child's boyfriend/girlfriend and let it run its course.Sometimes a person can find the one they will love forever at a young age. Or it could be just the first boyfriend/girlfriend.Who knows how this is going to turn out.
@year3399 (173)
• China
30 Mar 07
Teenagers have a new shape these days They are about 20 pounds heavier than they were 60years ago .They are about four inches taller,too.These facts come from Professor Tanner who has been measuring people from all over the would and has also studied people growth records of the past 100 years
• United States
26 Mar 07
There is good that can come from a well monitored and healthy teenage relationship. Teens need to learn about relationships somehow before they are on their own and making completly CRAZY choices. The skipping school and possessiveness are not healthy and someone needs to step in, but I do think in some situations, it is important for them to learn relationship skills.