Why do man cheat?

@maucute (980)
Philippines
March 26, 2007 1:03am CST
So we've heard him telling us how beautiful we are and how much he really loves you but in the end you found out there was another girl.. A third party in your relationship, why say all those lies when you're not true.. Guys, what's your stand on this? I've seen so many topics about man cheating on their woman, can't they be contented with the one they are with? I know there are temptations but if a man is strong why can't he resist temptation?
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
30 Mar 07
I think we have to be fair here it is not just Men that Cheat Sweetie Women do as well and there is always 2 sides to the Story why it happens.
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@maucute (980)
• Philippines
31 Mar 07
Oh, sorry.. I mean man in general both men and women actually.. Sorry for the misinterpretation.. But I would really love to find out the reasons that provoke people to do such because if they really cared for the person they're with, they should be able to think that what they're doing would hurt other people..
@zaichn (319)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
Uhmm, well.. I myself have cheated my girlfriend and I have already admit my mistakes to her and she asked me the same question months ago. I think most men need a woman or maybe even more who will satisfy their wants., our wants. Some instances are.. well my girlfriend was busy for weeks and she didnt gave much effort t contact me to check if im okay.. or to let me feel that she is still around. I guess that was my reason. But I do love her. I just need some company that time and luckily, another girl was there. Im glad now, were together again with my girlfriend. I hope it wont happen again this time.
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@maucute (980)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
So you mean that men also want their gf to check on them once in awhile? In my relationship before, when I ask how's he doing or what he's up to lately, he's even the one who didn't even replied back.. Actually when I think of it, it's kinda hard to think what does really satisfy men. We can't read what's on their mind especially those type who don't even share things to us.. Okay so based from what's you're saying, because of the of the lack of contact you go for the other girl? Is that enough reason to cheat? I'm happy that you got back together.. :) Hope for the best, good luck maybe in your case love is sweeter the 2nd time around.. :) thanks!
@deepti15 (1190)
• India
26 Mar 07
Man cheat because they do not realize the wortjh of what they already have. They always feelthat the other female is better than what they have and when with other they feel some other is better. It is this nature that makes them cheat. Aoart from this I dont think there is anything else. If you say problems, then i thin kboth men and women have problems with one another, they both have to bear the burden of fights they had but al of all, women dont go out and cheat their man so easily like men do. They are basically like that. I dont say all men are like that, my partner is not that way so I assume there might be many who would be like my hubby, faithful but still some are out there still cheating.
• India
31 Mar 07
i totaly agree to u i have also found so many Guys looking for women for chating. i think those who do such things are cheater and should be slaped in front of the society specially those who still look for women when the already have one.