why do we hurt the ones we love???
By hermanica
@hermanica (390)
Philippines
March 26, 2007 10:29pm CST
well, question that bothers me, along time ago, and maybe not even me, maybe even other people.. im just thinking, how come we say that we love that person and then at one point in our lives, we lied, we nag, we put up stupid fights, wedoubt his/her love when infact we know that we are the only person that he/she loves, we trade the time we could spend on them to other stupid things like smoking, drinking with friends who only cares when we have money or when they are getting aomething from us.. why??
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@fatal_ivory (238)
• Philippines
27 Mar 07
Well, I don't think it is an intentional thing to hurt the ones we love. Sometimes, we tend to commit mistakes that make it a cause for our loved ones to be hurt. It is only healthy in a relationship that you somehow hurted the feelings of the other. No one is perfect in this world. Everything happens for a reason, may it be good or bad. but mostly, bad things that had happened in our lives are those things that make us more stronger and better. It is in hurting someone make us realize that we love the other person. It is also a way of distinguishing the difference the happiness you feel and the sorrow love brings.
But sometimes, people hurt someone they love for them to realize the wrong things they have done. They want to instill lessons to them through that action. It does not mean they don't love them but it only means that are concern to them. Acceptance is the key I guess.
