What do you prefer marriage or live-in relationship?

Italy
March 27, 2007 2:35am CST
The new generation today show that many of then live together without any plans of getting marriage eith civily or in the church. What is really the reason why is we dont't know. What do you think is the reason why they don't go for achurch wedding and they just want to live together without any assurance for a lifelong commitment. Does any one can give us his or her view reagrding this matter of live-in and marriage relationship?
4 responses
@demo3424 (598)
• India
27 Mar 07
i prefer marriage over live-in relationship because it a sin to live-in relationship with your partner without marriage.live-in relationship is just for enjoyment.
• Italy
28 Mar 07
I agree to your judgment to a certain extent that live-in relationship is a sin. I say it that on a certain extent because some people really have a good reason why they are in a live-in relationship rather than going to marriage due to some pratical reason. This reason can either be unpreparedness of itsemotional, psychological and most especially financial capacity before they get into a life long commitment. However, I will saya and agree with you that live-in relationship is a sin when a live-in relationship happens without any good reason but only for being at the reason of comfort, without anyn plans of getting marriage in the future, doubt of their partner that they can have a long relatiosnhip, or just a point of convenience and non-concomittant relationship to each other or what you say just for enjoyment.
• Canada
27 Mar 07
My Sweetheart and I hope to get married, but we know that is our decision based on what will work best for us. If others prefer a live in relationship, or a different type of marriage, it is their decision.
• Italy
27 Mar 07
Congratulations in advance for a happy wedding and I wish you and your Sweetheart the best marriage not only for that day but also a happy marriage life onwards. I believe that what is important in a relationship is when you are in one mind and heart in what you are doing. But marriage is still best when it is agree by both in the absence of any pressures in life.
@SONALIKA (573)
• India
10 Apr 07
i believe in the sanctity of marriage.it is a life long commitment to stay beside each other in every thick and thin.marriage gives emotional security to both the partners.it's like a blessing; a vow taken in presence of society and god(in churches or temples).although i m also not against live in relations;as far as both the partners are happy with it.as it is one's personal choice what is comfortable and finds solace in which way out.
@alirana (297)
• Malaysia
27 Mar 07
Yeah i do prefer to plan an early marriage in relation,as me and my spouse plans to marry early next year.Hope fully we can mange to get that time.we need the prayers from all of our elders and friends to make this relation best for both of us.Inshallah.