Friendship's End

United States
March 27, 2007 3:27am CST
Has anyone had a friend that suddenly ended the relationship without warning and seemingly without reason? Have you gotten the cold shoulder and you have no idea why? When you ask questions to try and understand why that friend is now dropping you do you get nothing? Or do they start listing stuff you are completely thrown off by and can't get them to clarify their accusations? This has happened to me, and it is the worst sort of injustice. Not only is it painful, but without solid answers a person starts to question themselves so deeply out of the confusion they begin to wonder about their own integrity. Especially when we are on shakey ground about self esteem all ready, to have a friend suddenly deem you unfit to maintain a relationship with anymore really makes a person ponder what is good about themselves. I think we all deserve answers, it's only fair.
1 response
• United States
27 Mar 07
This happened to me like 6 months ago with my ex friend jess. We use to hang out, and we hung out one night with my other friend tammy, and all of a sudden she wouldnt talk to me. She wouldnt answer phone calls, NOTHING. There was a reason becasue she told her other friends..but no one would tell me, and I still dont know to this day! It makes me so mad! You are right when you said we all deserve answers! Thats the least they could do!
• United States
11 Apr 07
I still have not been able to get resolution....I know I would never intentionally treat any one I care about badly...so I have this frustration of NOT knowing what the hell i did wrong! I think I at least deserve to know so if it is something I need to be aware of I can work on it, know what I mean?