How would you react to the person who poisons your husbands mind with lies?

United States
March 27, 2007 11:14am CST
A close relative from my husband's side poisoned my husband's mind with lies about me and the family I come from. Due to pressure from my in-laws and my husband also (he believes her, she is so manipulative), I have to be nice with this woman. This soured our otherwise sweet relationship. We don't live close by, but I cannot react as if nothing happened when we have a family gettogether.
2 responses
@7nicole1 (1634)
• Canada
27 Mar 07
I know this will sound easier said then done but you have to sit your husband down and tell him how you feel and you wont stand to be treated like that from him or her. If you dont start standing up for yourself at all then you'll just be a push over for your whole life. Dont get stuck in a mess just because you want things to work, you should be treated as an equal and as for your husband not believing you or her thats just down right ignorant and sad of him to do to you. I wish you all the luck on this problem of yours but again stick up for yourself and demand respect and to be treated as a human being.
• United States
27 Mar 07
Thanks for the suggestion. I have tried doing what you said, but I also said, she is very manipulative and the whole world believes her. Things are getting better with my hubby with passing time but I know when we (me and her) meet again, the same story will repeat.
@sarah22 (3981)
• United States
27 Mar 07
i would be very mad and make sure that i dont see her. his family should know better and they know you. why do they listen to such things.have you talked with him about her and what she might be tring to do? i would.