I like someone

@ceppy68 (1594)
Indonesia
March 27, 2007 8:47pm CST
I don't know with my feel now,I like someone girl but I know I can not to get her because I have maried and have wife also childrens, what can I do now !
4 responses
• India
4 Apr 07
Dear friend do'nt make the biggest mistake of your life.U are married with kids. U have a family to support .Forget about this girl. Do u know that she likes u or not?Maybe its just an infatuation that u are going through.Spend more time with your family as they are your 1st priority.
@edujccz (929)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
You must be very young, use your head but not the one below. Before , you see your wife to be beautiful, this time you see another one to be beautiful and you like, tommorrow , you will see again another one beautiful, when are you growing up. Do you have sister, do you love them, then think. Sorry kid, that is how frank i am with no politeness, because maybe , she is my daughter. Hey ,it is only a joke, you decide what you want to decide. That is your life, just remember to be responsible for what ever move you make. ha ha ha ha ha. cheeer up kid.
• Philippines
28 Mar 07
if you insist of getting that woman of you dreams, ask yourself if "would that replace your wife?" "would you also like to have children with that woman?" divorce first your wife then have this girl with you. that is, if divorce is applied in your country. a good advice to a married man suffering from temptation of having an affair. before you do something stupid, think first of the outcome. you're placing your family & children on the line. the result, that action would break your family. if you don't like that to happen, try to control yourself. try to ignore the feelings and never get close to that girl if you know you won't be able to resist temptation.
• United States
28 Mar 07
You made a commitment to your wife to be faithful when you married her. That means that you do not pursue other women. You also have a commitment to remain 100% committed to your children until they turn 18. If you are unhappy in your current relationship talk to your wife and go and talk to a counselor. You can also go to your local place of worship and talk to someone there about your feelings. It is normal to fantasize about other people but it is wrong to take actions on those feelings.