If you didnt know your real father would you look for him?
March 28, 2007 4:41am CST
Ok my real dad left when I was young,4 I think I was? anyway he apparentally had children from a previous marriage and then had more children after he left so I have step brothers or sisters? or both? anyway he gave him his custody rights when I was very young and at that time he stopped all contact.I am now 30 with kids of my own and everyone always asks me why I havent tried to find him and well basically i figure if he wanted to know me he would have tried to contact mehimself and it really doesnt bother me whether I know him or dont and it honestly makes me sick that a father could just forget about his kids so i would never be able to forgive him if I did meet him again.What would you do?amd i being too harsh?
28 Mar 07
But what if i know what sort of person he is and I dont like who he is? It is on my mind I guess but only because people ask me about it and dont understand my decision in not finding him.This man doesnt care about his own children not only me but i dont know how many,I could never do that to my own children and dont understand why anyone would.....