Have you ever liked someone and they never asked you out?

United States
March 28, 2007 10:45am CST
There was this guy that I was talking to in college and we didn't even really talk that long. The reason we didn't get together because at the time I wouldn't be intimate with him. But it seem's like when I got with my boyfriend who is now my husband. It seems there was this strong attraction for one another and he told me and my friend that I would always be special to him but he never asked me to be with him. But I always knew we had a attraction and he liked me and vice versa. But he never asked so I had to move on. Isn't that crazy?
3 responses
@SachseMom (448)
• United States
28 Mar 07
I had the same thing happen to me several years ago. I was real good friends with the guy from church. He of course had a girlfriend, which I was friends with also because of him, and I was always looking. I preferred the cowboy type and he was the soon to be minister type. We hung out all the time, went driving around sometimes just to talk! He was truly my best friend. He breaks up with his girlfriend because they really weren't happy and he didn't want to keep dragging the relationship out. In the meantime we got closer and closer but nothing happened. I meet my cowboy and we started dating. The day that I moved in with him, my cowboy, my friend Shaun tells me that he's in love with me and wants to be with me!!! He tells me "Do you know how many times I just wanted to grab you and kiss you"? "I couldn't because I didn't want to ruin our friendship, but now I know that I want you and I don't think anything can ruin our friendship, it will just make it stronger"! Well, I didn't leave my boyfriend and Shaun moved on. I talked to Shaun's sister 2 years later and he was married and living in OK and he was a finishing school and going to be a youth minister!!! I love my husband now, he's not the same cowboy boyfriend, but I do wonder sometimes what if??
28 Mar 07
yes but if he really liked you he wouldve asked unless he ws to shy if u new tht u shouldve asked him out. wats the harm he could only say yes or no
@sarah22 (3979)
• United States
28 Mar 07
no, i new a guy just like that, we liked one another but it never went futher than that, he too wanted to be intimate with me. i felt that if we where would he still want to be with me after. we remained friends and i went over seas, it hurt him but like you, i too had to move on. i did not want to be another notch on a belt