Do I look gay?

March 29, 2007 8:13am CST
If you saw me in the street, would you automatically think I was gay?
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9 responses
@cyntrow (8524)
• United States
1 Apr 07
I learned a long time ago not to think that any person was gay just by looking at them. My brother is tall and skinny and mildly effeminate and could pass for gay, and he is. My uncle is built and totally masculine and could never pass for gay, yet he is. I wonder, is this something that bothers you. I think a problem within the gay male community might be trying to figure out who could be a perspective mate. If gay men know by looking if you are gay or not, I would consider this an asset. No guess work involved. Just get to know each other and figure out if you are interested in each other. What do you think????
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1 Apr 07
Doesn't bother me at all - Its just a question
1 Apr 07
I am in a long term relationship. My partner is 42. I'm happy with him, us and being who I am Thanks for the comments
@cyntrow (8524)
• United States
1 Apr 07
Excellent!! Good for you. Don't rule out the option of children some day.
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@urbandekay (18312)
1 Apr 07
yep, bent as a two bob note all the best urban
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1 Apr 07
Cheers chick LOL
@cyntrow (8524)
• United States
1 Apr 07
Is that the same as, Queer as a three dollar bill? LOL. Just curious
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@urbandekay (18312)
1 Apr 07
I guess yours is the American equivalent all the best urban
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1 Apr 07
Don't know about looking gay but I think you are cute
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1 Apr 07
Hey thanks babe Might get my bf jealous hehehe
@Robyn28 (385)
• Canada
29 Mar 07
Hi I have lots of friends that are I'm open it's all good if you are I have no problem witht that. Are you a model I think you could be one if you wanted to be
29 Mar 07
I have done a bit of modelling :-) Just wondered if people assumed I was gay from my look - I am gay but could you tell?
• United States
1 Apr 07
I dont often judge if people are gay by how they look, unless their clothes are WAY out there and obvious. But no, it wouldnt have been obvious to me by the way you are dressed.
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@stacy624 (2777)
• Canada
31 Mar 07
No I Wouldnt think that you were gay! Unless I seen the way you talk and acted then I would would wonder if you were gay or not! Take care Codywest Stacy
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@carlaabt (3505)
• United States
31 Mar 07
I wouldn't necessarily say you looked gay. Gay people can dress and act many different ways, just like straight people. One of my best friends is gay, and most people would never know if they saw him out somewhere. Of course, part of that is on purpose because he doesn't want everyone that he works with knowing about his personal life. Anyway, I don't think there is a certain way that a gay person has to look.
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@davis123 (507)
• United States
30 Mar 07
sorry to say but i would think u were gay not knowing if u are but u look gay
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@BreeLee (28)
• United States
1 Apr 07
I never judge people by the way they look. People are wrong alot, and it can be hurtful. To me you look like someone who cares a lot about apperance, that's all really. =)