what would you do after break up?

It really is painful and hard.. Actually I will make an assessment of myself on why things happened and would try to at least avoid things that would result to a negative impacts in my life because I really don't want to do the same mistake again.. To be able to move on, as much as I could I try to enjoy myself so that I won't be able to think about things but I'm not perfect to be able to just forget about them.. I would probably learn new things that's in my interest so that I won't be bored, try to go on a vacation or to the beach to find peace..

It's Reallt Vehaileairu hard to talk about that cause it's back to ur type and back to the reason of ending this realtionship... Cause ya can't say That Ya StopLuving Ur Gurl and Start To Hate Her Then Ya End Ur Relation and Then Ya Say I Need Break.... That's Impossible For Sure.. And If She which who ended the relation it's back to how ya luv her and ur type again... On My Opinion Don't Stop For Anything Or Not Make Anything Stop Ya.... I'll Not Die Without Anyone.... And No One Will Die Cause Of Me... So Tell Me What is the useful of crying or taking break... Keep Moving And Let The All Keep Moving By Idea Keep Moving Make Ya Forgot Easily Than Take Break.. Cause Taking Break Make Ya Remember Ur Days And Cry about these days and gotting depressed.... Life Not Stop For Losing On So Keep Moving and that's not meen ya haven't feelings or i haven't feelings but i think that i can kill ma feeling inside me if it will stop ma life way... So Start Again And Keep Moving.. Thnx For This Discussions :D

Well for some obvious reasons, most of us do feel kind of depressed on certain moment of our lives. It's okay to feel that way, but sooner or later, we should also realize how to gather up ourselves and continue to live our own lives. As for me, I try to enjoy the things that which I taught I took for granted and didn't appreciate during my busy days with my girl. I try to go out with my friends, party whenever possible, and drink as if there's no more tommorow just to keep my mind occupied. And if given a chance to love again, then I consider it as a blessing from above. Be happy again and venture to another relationship, hoping that this time, it will be for the better..

Yeah painful indeed and no matter how both of you tried the partings as gentle as possible the same pain will come.Unbearable and excruciating, so bizarre. The fact is, there is no such gentle way of breaking up.But we should realize that there is always life after those painful experience. It is ok to dwell the misery of loss for a little while but drowning oneself to such is insane. Don't push things too hard, if things were not meant then let it be. Just be optimistic about it. Go out and explore the world has a lot to offer and it is there always for the taking! Pray harder and ask for strenght. God will provide what you really need in his time.

After the break up, first I would make up my mind to forget the past and start a new life. I would give more attention on my appearance and outfit. Meanwhile start a healthy regime - eat healthy and do exercise. Then I would let some of my friends know I am single again and try to take part in some activities that I missed out before and have fun. Finally I would do something I really wanted to do in the past but due to lack of the time I couldn't do like painting; dancing to keep me busy.

a break-up is really hard to do but we really need to move on..after break-ups i usually hang out friend that would llikely to cheer me up..i listen to music..have some fun..drink then try to forget..but i know that's just how life is..and days would be better again

I just get back in the groove and keep living life. If it wasnt to be it was good to end it.

Well, cry out the pain in my heart.. Think of the positive sides or the purpose why it happened.. Recollect myself then move on.. There's still love out there waiting for me after all.. Just be happy...

i do not know exactly probly i will spend more time with my family and friends

I have been through break ups and some are more easy to handle than the others. I usually occupy myself immediately with various social events after a breakup. Meet some friends (and try not to bring up the breakup stuff twice), learn something new, read a good book, watch some good TV series on DVDs so that the brain is too busy to think about other things. It takes time, and it takes positive attitude to handle these things too.