What is the secret to a good post??

I don't think there is a secret really , If it catches the eye and people are interested then you are on a winner , sometimes I think " brilliant lots will answer " and they don't and sometimes I think they won't and they do , make friends and they will answer you and in turn you theirs , hope that helps xx

i suppose you mean the () beside your number? i dunno at 1st.. but i realise it means the number of post you had posted in myLot.. oh as mentioned by others, it helps if you add comments to responses we give at your discussions...

YOu will get your start once you reach 100 posts :-) I don't know what you mean by the number below your number!? A good discussion is something that realy do lead to discussion. So you have to raise a question and try to answer it in a way that leads to discussion.

Some ideas for posts are current events, in the news, bands, parenting issues, teen issues, other things that interest you or concern you. Good luck.

well first read the discussion and then feel as if the problem is ours and then really you can get the best solution from your mind.so that becomes the best.