will you tell the truth to ur bestfriend about his boyfriend who cheat on her?
By alfonseelric
@alfonseelric (894)
Malaysia
April 1, 2007 2:28am CST
Will you? Some women will trust 100 percent of their men. And they won't believe any outsider (including their bestfriends). By telling them the truth it will cost you your friendship.You will never get close to her (unless later she realize and see the true face of her bfriend..) and u can never protect her.But by pretending that u know nothing, it will killing you from the inside..
What will u do?
6 responses
@natrlvr2 (383)
• United States
1 Apr 07
Best Friend? Absolutely I would tell her but I would also make sure she had the proof.(been there done this)I did this for a long time friend too.(at the time it was 20 yrs. of close friendship)I had proof,had other people who SAW and even told her.But he said everyone was lying and she believed him over and over for 35 yrs. now.To make a long story short,she is a battered and abused wife.She no longer is the person she used to be.Her personailty has changed and there is NOTHING anyone can do about it unless they kidnap her and hide her to unbrainwash her.
@alfonseelric (894)
• Malaysia
2 Apr 07
Hmm...(sigh)..
As her bestfriend u must feel dissapointed.. angry.. sad.. and pain at the same time. But that is the choice she make herself despite what people told her. Let us pray that someday she will leave that man and lead a better life.
@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
1 Apr 07
before i am going to tell my friend i'd better be sure of the news that its really true. And if ever, i am going to tell my friend no matter what it cost coz i believe that honesty can set us free. For me, if it will happen to me i'd rather be told than be ignorant.
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
1 Apr 07
If I know that my best friend's partner is cheating, I will definitely tell my friend, and if that person is truly my friend he or she will believe what I am saying, and that I only have his or her best interests in mind, when I say what I say.
@alfonseelric (894)
• Malaysia
1 Apr 07
You have the point here. If she claims that she is the bestfriend of us.. i mean that she should believe us.. or at least give us a chance to explain and maybe she can investigate...
@myklaire (437)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
I would definitely tell my friend, only when I'm sure! I would also get hurt by what my friend's partner did! I do care so my friend show know...
@Bell88 (370)
• Malaysia
1 Apr 07
Yes i will, I will try to make her understand no matter what. After all what are bestfriends for. She may not believe first but if her boyfriend keeps doing it she will find out. Then i'll be there for her.
@alfonseelric (894)
• Malaysia
1 Apr 07
Yeah. That is what friends are for.... friend in need is friend indeed..
@mslee2003 (6)
•
1 Apr 07
no. i wont tell hercoz i dont want het to get mad at me. in short, im afraid to what might be her reactions. shes my friend, i dont wanna hurt her feelings. let the course of life will let her know the real situationshes facing. anyway, sooner she will know the real score. its her life anyway.so im still there for her come what may. i will be3 around to guide her, to console her, understand her, stand by her no matter what. i still be her good friend always. besides, there are many fishes in the oceans so to speak. she can have all the time to choose and select the right guy for her. her boyfriend doesnt deserve my friend.
@alfonseelric (894)
• Malaysia
1 Apr 07
Yeah. It will be a very hard decision. Indeed, the truth will speak itself later... hmm... just while waiting.. it will be painful.
