Is it right to forgive people ?

@jamie622 (508)
India
April 1, 2007 6:40am CST
Do you think its right to forgive people ? I have reasons for doing so and for not doing it . Advantages : 1. You feel really good to forgive someone . 2. It is considered kind to forgive someone . 3. You might end up creating a new friend who would thank you for your tolerance . Disadvantages : 1. The person can hurt you again if he goes unpunished the first time . 2. You might feel belittled . What is your opinion ?
5 responses
@mskzalameda (4023)
• Philippines
1 Apr 07
a big YES for that one! in the bible, Jesus said that we must forgive 777 x 7 times. any religions, same faith, we must really forgive in order to move on with our life. we can't be happy if there is something bad inside your heart. it will keep on haunting you until your last breath.
@KissThis (3003)
• United States
1 Apr 07
I believe in forgiving people because I know not everyone is perfect, well make mistakes.I remeber a saying "You may forgive but you never forget.".How true is that.I mean you say you forgive someone but how many times do you think about it?
• India
1 Apr 07
I feel it is right to forgive people. The three advantages you listed easily over come the first disadvantage. As to the second disadvantage, I am too egoistic to feel belittled
@rlonrlon (155)
• Philippines
1 Apr 07
i think it's right to forgive people, only when you are ready to do so.
@njuzheng (40)
• China
1 Apr 07
I think it is right to forgivew people. You know,everybody does wrong sometimes. If you do not forgive her/him, you may hurt her/him, espencially children. I remember somebody ever said: somebody hit my right face, i will face my left face to him/her. So forgive people when they do wrong.