Is the love still be there after 3 years??

China
April 1, 2007 7:44am CST
One year ago, I had thought that I would love my boyfriend forever after our graduation from the university. But I am wrong. After our graduation, he went to work in hefei, the capital of anhui province, and I went on study in Beijing. In the beginning, I felt so uncomfortable without him beside me. I missed him so much that I asked him to give up his job. I was crazy then, wasn’t I? In order to live in the same city with me, he gave up his job and came to Beijing preparing for the postgraduate examination. After one year’ separation I realize I have already miss the feeling that I want to be together with him. What make me feel shame is that I begin to feel boring with him. There has been too much change in my life, and I am not that girl already. After my graduation I want to go abroad, I wonder if I go abroad whether I can keep the relationship between us or not.
2 responses
kayesteph08
@kayesteph08 (174)
• Philippines
1 Apr 07
i think maybe why you change you feelings..because you already found what you really needs and dreams..and your getting change..so it is really normal to change..it is really hard to answer your question..but i just want to ask you if you really love your boyfriend until now?
maucute
@maucute (979)
• Philippines
1 Apr 07
wow, what you tell him to do is a bit risky.. Of course if you really feel the love for the person it would even reach more than 3 years, but I guess your love just slowly fades away.. Usually in order to make the relationship work out, you really need to have the time to have communication and the time to be with each other to feel each other's warmth.. Probably because of the time you're not together which lets you feel you've grown apart already, same goes with me before in my previous relationship I got tired of things but it was because he was not showing effort to be with me.. I guess our situation differ a bit but hey try to think about your feelings first..