Making do with what you've got

Malaysia
April 1, 2007 10:20pm CST
Mandissa (not her real name) is very much in love. She has been in such a mood with Adam (not his real name) for several years now. However, there is a problem. Adam has a wife. Mandissa will have to do withouth the love of her life. She has to share her love of her life. As she said "I have been in love with a married man and I should know the repurcussions and sacrifices that come with it". "I cannot help my feelings, and I guess I'll just have to be alone this Valentine's Day". Adam is celebrating the day with his wife. However, he has promised to make time for Mandissa when his obligations to the wife have been done. "Being with a married man, I can understand that my time with him is limited...I'll have to wait and see if there's any left for me"Why do some women can succumb, accept and share their love with others despite knowing that they can never be together because their partner is already married? Who's fault in this case? Have you gone through any kind of this experiences yourself and propbably you can share your side of story for us to learn? Is love is blind?
1 response
@limosonia1 (1560)
• United States
2 Apr 07
I truly believe that love is blind sometimes. But we as people need to know how to set boundries and walk away from situations that are hurtful to others even though we are in love. It will hurt because you can't control your heart but that man made a commitment to both his family and his wife and should stand by his wifes side. It is not fair for this lady to continue to see a married man.