when to tell

India
April 2, 2007 11:01am CST
hi,this is a topic i really want suggessions on...i have this freind who is a girl...we have talked a lot and lot..and know each other for almost two years now...but i dont know if i should consider her my girlfriend or not...she has alraedy had many boyfriends though...but this would be my first attempt...when do i say her tht i have such feelings...how do i tell...will it break the friendship?
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@ela2pso (364)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
of course it will break up your friendship but dude, it might be the start of the new relationship... telling your feelings wont harm anything. just pray first and of course try to set her mood okie? girls have different moodswings,, lol. well seriously, youre free to tell her your feelings and court her... theres no negative thing about it. go bro. be brave! gooodluck... actually ive been in it before and were lovers now. okie? God bless bro.
• India
2 Apr 07
thats really a good advice....i think i will go ahead..tell me some ideas if u have for mood setting...
• India
2 Apr 07
if u really have feeling for that girl, then don't wait even for 1sec. Go and tell what u feel for her and maybe she is felling the same way as u r. AND DON'T BE AFRAID
• India
2 Apr 07
thanks dude...but the same problem,she has already had many boyfriends....should i really gi flat out?
@ackars (1942)
• India
2 Apr 07
Just go sbout and tell her..If she is good friend of yours now,she will definitely understand you..If she also have the same feeling,then cool..If she have no such feeling for you,she will corect you if she is your tru3e friend...Its better to say it out rather than keeping it in mind..By keeping it in your mind,you are cheasting on her..I mean you are acting asif you are her good friend...but in actual not...so dont hesitate...cheers.ackars