Men, if you ask her out and she rejects you,

United States
April 3, 2007 1:22am CST
then don't take it so personally. Different people are attracted to what they like, and different people have different tastes. Don't act like it's the end of the world. Move on, and go for it with another girl. Don't think of ANY girl as "the one" before you two are in a serious relationship or even engaged. It's not smart and it's certainly not biblical. Also, don't be afraid to try again to ask her out if you suspect she might still be interested. The 3-strikes rule is a good one. She might be playing hard to get.
2 people like this
4 responses
@kathy77 (7488)
• Australia
3 Apr 07
Yes you are right that the men should not take this to personal. Yes move on that is the only way you will find the right partner for yourself, and treat the woman right, the way that you would like to be treated with respect for each other. Yes this is right that she could be playing hard to get and you never know unless you ask nicely and you are right with the 3 strikes rule.
@perugu (5281)
• India
3 Apr 07
Is it your personal experience...if so learn from experts how to get acceptence from girls...
1 person likes this
@vanities (11387)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Apr 07
well maybe..or she may be testing your convincing power or your dedication or whatever i think its not on playing hard to get its the prerogative on females to be sure if the men is sincere enough...
• Janesville, Wisconsin
5 Apr 07
Sometimes they are not interested in dating at the moment, other times they are still healing from a break up or something else, other times they have it set in their mind what type pf person they go for, and have their own little mental profile, and it just does not match you.... ... There are plenty of people out there.. Just keep looking and trying, You'll find one that says yes someday.. However.. To both men and woman... I am not much of a "Yes" sayer.. :) .. - DNatureofDTrain