In which age you got marries and What is the best age for getting married ?
April 3, 2007 5:35am CST
Mine is a very late marriage I got married at the age of 35 and my wife's age was 26. Which age you got married and What is the best age for getting married for both male and female
• United States
3 Apr 07
The first time I got married, I was a girl of 17, he was 19. I really think now we were way too young. We grew apart and after 15 years split up. I think at that age a person is too young to really know what they want out of life, and hopes and dreams change with time. The second time I married, I was 32, we are going on ten years. It's not always easy, we have some doozy fights, but doesn't everyone? I don't know if there is a perfect age to get married, I think it would depend on the individual and what is perfect for them. Also I think maturity has a lot to do with it. I know couples that got married very young and have been married for over thirty years, and I also know couples who married when they were older and only lasted a couple years.
3 Apr 07
I really don't think that age is the factor that should govern when you get married. I am in my second marriage now, the first one didn't go too well, although we had three beautiful children, we just weren't compatible enough for it to last. I feel that the factors to be taken into account are the feelings that you have for each other, discuss all matters to find if you are going to agree on things later in life, do you want children, what are your beliefs in raising them, what if one of you becomes ill, how will you live, who will work and how will that work affect your relationship? The main factor is do you really love each other enough to be together for the rest of your lives? I was first married when I was 32, my then wife was 25, we thought we were right for each other but didn't give ourselves enough time to get to know each other properly. I am now 49, my current wife is 26, we have been through all the discussions and we know what makes each other tick. We will be together for the rest of our lives because we have a strong enough bond to make it last and to get through the bad times and enjoy the good. Age doesn't matter, unless you want children together so that has some influence, you just need to know that you love each other unconditionally.