April 3, 2007 8:22am CST
Hello all, I have a bit of a problem im really confused about,Ive been going out with my gf for four months now but i have fallen in love with my best friend, I dunno who to choose coz theres other factors in it as well, My current gf goes to my school and i can see her a lot, my bestie doesnt and i can only see her once a week on normal school weeks, also my gf is in japan in the moment and i dont think dumping her would be a good welcome home present.
3 Apr 07
"LEAD US NOT INTO TEMPTATION" & "LOOK FOR THOSE WHO LOVE YOU NOT THE ONES YOU LOVE" Follow your heart, what does it tell you? And be prepared for whats coming for you if you ever decide to "leave" ur current GF. But Don't do it on a "whim", breaking hearts is not a nice thing to do. And certainly don't be lead into temptaion JUST because this new intrest is just closer to you. Your current GF might love you better than the other, If she doesn't already, and you might loose a lot.
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4 Apr 07
yes, a very good response by silver_shaddow, a wise one. I agree. Sometimes what you dont have looks better because it is romanticised in your head, the grass is always greener on the other side, until you see the work it takes to make it that way. You never know how many weeds grow out of it. =) Maybe, you have fallen in love with the idea of your best friend, more than the actual person? What do you think? You should think about it really hard before you make your ultimate decision. Dont lose a good thing, and a best friend....
4 Apr 07
i think you are still young. many thing are not as easy as you think. if u dump your g,f now then are you sure your bestie is going to accept you as her boyfrend? because if im a gal, i will feel that you are playing arround and easy to fall in love with others and not mature enough and for sure i wont accept you as i dun want to be your second victim because i dunno when u are going to tell me you have fall in love with oither girls and want to dump me and also yout previous relationship only last for 4 months. Appreciate what you have now. really...