reaction for unresolved discussions

India
April 3, 2007 10:18pm CST
What do u feel when u see ur unresolved discussions? I really feel disgusted and sad..I start a discussion in the night or morning and then again when i log in at morning or night and many times i find not a single response to my discussions..Really sometimes this feels that i sud quit from myLot but then again i just take it as a passtime .So i just spend half an hour in the night and half anhour in the morning in myLot..What do u feel ?
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6 responses
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
You have to consider 'time' if you're starting your own post, and make sure that your posts are of good quality. It has to be posted during a time where most mylot member's are active, or even your friends. Otherwise, mylot users will simply ignore your post. Because some prefer to topics that are of their interest, well-written and understandable. You can also limit your post for one day at a time, to avoid having unresolved discussions. As for me, I concentrate more on responding to other's discussions. I only post whenever I know I can come up with good topics that would interest many, as I try to start my own discussions at about 3 to 4 times a week.
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
I try to average at about 20 to 30 posts a day.
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• India
8 Apr 07
oh that's gr8..i only finish up with 10-12 responses...ok from now on i'll concentrate more on posting responses..im sure i will make it to 20-30..thank u for responding back
• India
4 Apr 07
thanks for ur suggestion..by the way how many responses do u post in a day??
• United States
4 Apr 07
It is sad not to get a response, but it happens to every single one of us. Eventually someone answers them. Just don't let it get you down. Just keep posting and replying. Good luck my friend. Don't forget to rate "best response". I rated you a ++ for your posting.
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• India
4 Apr 07
oh thank u dear..tht's why i saw an increment in the percentage over my star..it incresed to 80 from 78..
• United States
9 Apr 07
I'm glad it helped your star. Thank you for the best response, I appreciate it.
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• India
10 Apr 07
Oh glad to see that u again visited this page.
@aliasad (1567)
• Pakistan
4 Apr 07
Well, I sometimes have some discussions remain unattended to whom I was too much confident to grab a big response. It really makes me disappointing at that moment. But then I try to convince myself to go for some "quality" topics. Which quality, I also don't figure it out, frankly! ..... LoL. Another, thing is the firends, just start responding them, surely you will see a difference. I have tried and got ;)
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• India
4 Apr 07
yes i too am unable to find out which quality..i am trying out topics that i think can attract friends i have made here but i m just a no one..Sometimes i think this one will get a huge attraction but it ends in 0
@mskzalameda (4023)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
go! we can do this guys! don't loose hope! - failures are normal, what important is, in every failure, we learn to stand up and try again.
i feel so sad and alone. i think that my discussion is so boring and no one has an interest on it. it is a feeling of disappointment for me. i think i did not catch the palate of the myLot users. i saw some discussions which are a blockbuster. their questions are basic and simple yet very appealing to the users. i somehow think that if i will do the same thing, maybe it will be more appealing too but copying is not the way. i need to do a unique and creative way to get into their inner thoughts. i need to find a way and not just sit around and think of the failure i have encountered. it is normal, everybody gets that. i am not alone. i can have a blockbuster discussion also if i will strive hard. we can do it guys! don't loose hope! he he! go go go!
• India
4 Apr 07
yes thank u ..lets hope fr the best and me too dont want to copy but i am unable to find the reason why my discussions dont get any attention?i just tried hard to find and when ever i fail to do so i just feel very irritting..
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@vitausp (101)
• New Zealand
4 Apr 07
You just need to keep on creating discussions. I don't like to spend too much time here, it's just too easy to get involved in responding to some of the interesting stuff.
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• India
4 Apr 07
my prob is regarding discussions..i create and start and do not get responses.many of my discussions are unresoved ,even many technical ones which i need also go without discussion..and this is frustrating
@wachit14 (3595)
• United States
4 Apr 07
I'm sure it's frustrating to begin a discussion and not have anyone respond to it. However, sometimes a discussion won't receive any responses for a few days or even weeks so don't despair. Someone may answer your questions eventually.
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• India
4 Apr 07
thank u for ur support .really glad to get it