Why does Love pain all the time?????

India
April 4, 2007 7:32am CST
I had a love, it pained me like anything but after a fight i felt i am the happiest person on earth then after sometime, i will be wrong and wen she left, i am still hurt do love have to pain like that????
4 responses
@joanna08 (394)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
loe hurts for many reasons. For one, you invested so much into that person that is why when they left or did something to you, you'll experience pain in your heart. Invested in a way because you spend so much time with him/her, you tell her many stories and you opened yourself into that person. second reason is that, you and that person have a deep relationship because you love her. You though at first that being with her will always be a CONSTANt thing in your life. But when you fight or broken up with that person, he/she left and suddenly you're alone once again. :(
• India
4 Apr 07
I Come under the first reason of urs but i beleived her too she let me down even risked my studies and my carrier
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
Love is all around. If we are in-love we always experienced a lot of pain. But these pain are just ingredients to make a relationship work. This pain is make has to be a better person for our partner or loved-ones.
• India
4 Apr 07
But she left me she doubts me while i beleived love brings jealousness and it also breaks relationship
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
hi vijay! in love, being in a relationship you're giving the other person the authority to hurt you..just like me im in a relationship but i don't feel like my bf have time for me, he even forgot special occassions in my life aside from the fact that we're both overseas...it's really hard to fall in love, a lot of pain and miseries..
• China
6 Apr 07
I dont' have such a pain yet, but I think ,maybe many guys will have this experiences on this. what I want to say is the past is just past , we should go ahead our new life.