How one can keep his friend
April 4, 2007 4:26pm CST
hi every one i wanted to ask how one can keep his friends and don't loose him for money or bussnies or even girl how he can make their friendship more storg then all of that tough quastion right ?
• United States
4 Apr 07
Be consistent with your friends and love. Keep your word, be honorable. Never loan money to family or friends. Tell your love how you feel regularly. Don't demand too much from a friend. Some will be more friendly than others. Some will need more time than others. Be observant and you will be able to figure this out. Hold hands in public (if acceptable where you live). This shows your love you are proud to be with her. Listen!! MOst good relationships are based on good communication.
• United States
4 Apr 07
Just because you call someone your friend does not mean you need to spend all your time with them. I have a good friend who lives in another state. She is working full time going to school for her mastards degree and raising two children. She does not have much time for me. I still consider her my firend. We see each other about once a year and talk about every other month. If someone is truly your friend they will be around for along time. If you want to be a good friend then you have to be willing to let your friend have new girls, and make money. You may not like the girl but you need to put up with her as long as she is not physicially or emotionally harming your friend. You also need to learn when to keep your mouth shut. I knew a friend's boy friend was having an affair. I told her. (All the studies say tell the friend). It backfired and I lost my friend. I would never tell another friend again on the other hand when the truth came out I would act dumn and not tell him/her either. This advise is coming from someone who is 25 years older than you and has ruined a lot of friendships. The best advise is be available when they need you, call them and listen when they want to talk, and sometimes no matter what you do they are going to leave you.
5 Apr 07
Well i think to you sould be careful when he say advise to someone to not understand it worng as happended to you but i don't think i can still on my place and watch my friend been tricked my someone might he think he/she his/her friend or lover At least becuase if he know that later he will kill me ofcurse i am just jokeing plus he might don't look at me the same look he used to and maybe we don't be friends anymore