3 Most important traits in a partner.....

United States
April 4, 2007 8:33pm CST
What are yours? Mine are honesty, ability/willingness to be affectionate through words and actions & a good sense of humor. Luckily I found the perfect man for me! He's all these things and much more. I am truly blessed!
3 responses
@barnkinney (1343)
• Philippines
5 Apr 07
for me it would be faithfulness or loyalty.. i don't want to share my guy.. then, good level of intellect.. preferably same as mine. so that he's not to smart to intimidate me and not to dumb to bore me. heheeh! and last, good sense of humor. i want to smile a lot and laugh a lot with someone.. i think it would be really nice.. rough roads are ahead, it's better to greet it with a smile. there! these are my 3 most important traits in a partner.
• United States
5 Apr 07
Oh YEAH.....faithfulness is an absolute...I guess I lump that with honesty...thanks for sharing your top 3!
• Philippines
5 Apr 07
you're welcome! i'm just not sure if such person exists.. hehe!
• Northern Mariana Islands
5 Apr 07
Mine would be responsibility, compassion and spirituality. He has to be responsible enough to take care of his own family, affectionate not only to me as his partner, but also to others as well; and spiritual, in the sense that he may not be religious but he is God-fearing and follows what the church and morals teach.
• Northern Mariana Islands
5 Apr 07
And i would just like to add that like you, Songbirdnaimh, I have found all these in my husband. So cheers to us! :p
@mamasan34 (6521)
• United States
5 Apr 07
Honestly, good sense of humor and affection as well. I think these make a good marriage or partnership. Even when the chips are down, if you have a good sense of humor, it always lessens the sting of the bad things. Having the ability to show affection is important. I believe in actions speak louder than words and I like to see affection and feel it as well. Just words don't do it for me. I really appreciate honesty in a relationship because with no trust there is no foundation for a solid relationship. I too am blessed with a partner in which I can trust all things and know that he is here for me 100%.