what if someday you find that the person whome you loved so much is not faithful

@zing_i (269)
United States
April 5, 2007 3:00pm CST
why is it that we have to axpect so much from the person whome we love to give us love in return, is it possible that you could love someone very very much but that person is not bothered about u at all or does not love u in return
2 responses
@diablouk (598)
5 Apr 07
Love is a very strange thing - falling in love with someone who does not return those feelings is entirely possible. I don't know if I am more forgiving than others but understand that there are all sorts of reasons why someone may be unfaithful to their parner and, whilst undoubtedly I would be hurt by this, I would always give my partner the opportunity to explain why. We must accept that we are all human and who amongst us can claim to be perfect
@Chryssi (828)
• United States
5 Apr 07
I would be absolutely devastated.. Relationships are based on love, trust, honesty, communication, and so much more. If he cheated on me, it would break the trust, and there would be no way that I could ever trust him again. With the expecting thing, I don't think that it's fair to expect a lot from your significant other. Because that would possibly set you up for disappointment. It's also very possible to fall in love with someone who doesn't return your feelings.